Dear Ellie,
You have been 8 for over a week now, but, in my defense, I already wrote your birthday letter in our Mama & Me journal on your actual birthday. I love the journal that we pass back and forth between us because it is something special that just the two of us share. As the oldest, you are sometimes overshadowed by the demands of your younger brothers, but the journal keeps us connected.
This past year I have watched you become a confident, independent young lady. You make your own breakfast in the mornings (usually oatmeal or toaster pancakes) and often make breakfast for Jack, too. In the afternoons, you do your own homework with no help from me. In fact, you often do it at school so it doesn't cut into your play time. You have your own sense of style and insist on wearing what you want, when you want, without caring if I say it doesn't look good. You value your own opinion above anyone other opinion. As frustrating as it can be, I kind of love that about you.
You are excelling at school. This is the first year you get actual grades on your report card and so far you have made straight As. Even better, you have not had a single mark on your weekly conduct card. You enjoy all your subjects, but Reading and Science are your favorites. You cannot go to sleep at night without reading and when I come wake you in the mornings, I always find you surrounded by several books. You finished reading the Harry Potter series this past year and it is by far your favorite. You wish with all your heart that Hogwarts was a real school and that you could go there.
You love animals and you have mentioned to me several times that you feel you are more animal than human. You have always preferred soft, plush animals to dolls and that is still the case. When we organized your room, your stuffed animals were the only thing you absolutely wouldn't part with.
You also love to swim, ride your bike, jump on the trampoline, and play soccer. You love soccer and swim team more for the social aspect rather than the actual sport, and you don't have much of a competitive spirit. You have a kind heart and you often surprise me with your insights into others' feelings and actions.
Ellie, I have relied on you so much this past year, and you have really stepped up to the plate. I often call you Mom Two because of how well you take care of your younger brothers. I don't know what I would do without you, my Ellie-Belly. Happy birthday, sweet girl.
Love,
Mama