Dear Ellie at 19

Dear Ellie,

Happy 19th Birthday! Nineteen! It feels like just yesterday you were being placed in my arms for the very first time. I know I say this every year, but April 13 will always be my favorite date because it is the day I became a mom.  I remember staring down at newborn you and wondering WHO you would be. I watched as you grew into a little girl with the best laugh and a stubborn spirit, and now you’re a remarkable young woman forging your own path at Texas A&M.

This past year has been a whirlwind, hasn’t it? Your first year of college, a whole new chapter, and you’ve absolutely excelled. Straight A’s, leadership roles, becoming an RA...you’ve tackled every challenge with that incredible determination of yours. You’re not afraid to try new things, to push yourself, and that’s a quality I admire so much.

I’m so proud of the woman you’re becoming. Seeing you thrive, seeing you build your own life, it fills my heart with joy. And I love how our relationship is evolving. We’re moving into a phase where I can relax about the parenting stuff and simply enjoy your company. It’s a beautiful thing.

This year hasn’t been without its hardships. We’ve all felt the pain of losing Grandpa, and then you battling mono...it was a tough time. But even then, you showed your strength and resilience. You didn’t let those obstacles derail you, and that speaks volumes about your character.

I’m so incredibly thankful for your responsibility and trustworthiness. Knowing I can count on you, that you’re making wise choices, gives me such peace of mind. You’re pretty awesome, Ellie, and you make me so proud.

Ellie, I hope you continue to embrace all the adventures that come your way. Keep chasing your dreams, keep being your authentic self, and know that I’ll always be here, your biggest fan, every step of the way.

Happy Birthday, my amazing daughter. You are loved more than words can say.

Love you forever,

Mom

Dear Sam at 12

 

Dear Sam,

Happy 12th Birthday! I can hardly believe you're another year older. It feels like just yesterday I was holding your tiny hand, and now you're navigating the wilds of middle school like a seasoned explorer.

This past year has been incredible to watch. You've tackled the challenges of a new school with such determination, and I'm so proud of the hard work you've put in. You've ventured out of your comfort zone so much, and I've been amazed by your growth.

But even more than your academic achievements, it's your heart that truly shines. You have such a big, generous spirit, and your funny sense of humor always brightens my day.  I love how you always say thank you and express so much gratitude for both the little and big things you receive.

One of my favorite things about our relationship is how open and honest we can be. You're never afraid to ask me questions, no matter how big or small, and I cherish those conversations. I hope you always feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings with me, because our bond is something I treasure deeply.

As you continue to grow into the amazing young man you're becoming, I hope you never lose that open, loving spirit. The world needs more people like you – people who are kind, curious, and unafraid to be themselves.

Sam, I hope you know that I'll always be here to support you, cheer you on, and offer a listening ear. Happy birthday, my wonderful son. 

Love you forever,

Mom