Today is your 3rd birthday. I have had so much fun preparing for this birthday because this is the first year you actually understood what a birthday means. For the past few weeks, you have been informing me, “I’m going to be THREE!” You talked about your birthday party and picked out the type of cake you wanted (Dora). You told me that everyone would be happy at your party. And, of course, you were right.
This past year your language has exploded. You have evolved from simple sentences to full-on paragraphs complete with descriptive adjectives. I find you so interesting to talk to and you often catch me off guard with your observations. I often wonder when kids stop being so fascinating. Because, truly, you fascinate me. I could just sit and watch you for hours and you are my favorite topic of conversation (good thing I have this blog to get it out of my system or I might not have any friends left).
I love how independent you are. You definitely know what you want and are very vocal about letting us know. We have been working a lot with you lately on using your nice voice. You are very polite and are good about telling us “I very sorry” when you get in trouble.
You used to be more of a Daddy’s girl, but now you seem to take turns with who you prefer. Every night, after we finish reading you a story and saying prayers, you pick one of us to stay in the room to talk to you and order the other one to leave. For awhile there, you were ordering me out of the room every night and making your Daddy stay, but lately you have been choosing me. “Daddy, go out. I want to talk to Mommy.” We then proceed to discuss the plans for the following day and you tell me what adventures you want to go on after school. Some nights I am so tired and just want to go to bed, but then I remind myself that in the not so distant future, you may no longer want my company like you do now.
This is the last birthday you will spend as an only child. I think you are excited about being a big sister. You will often kiss my belly and talk baby talk to your baby brother/sister. I ask you if you want a baby boy or a baby girl and I get a different response every time. Sometimes you will just say, “No, thank you.” Ellie, I know that you will be an amazing big sister. I hope that you never feel overshadowed by the demands a new baby will place on our family. You will always be our Ellie-belly and we will always love everything about you.
Happy 3rd birthday, Ellie. Thank you for being such an amazing daughter.
Love you forever,
Mama



