Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Another pregnancy update for the books

I went and took the 3 hour glucose tolerance test (not fun, by the way) and I passed!  Barely, but I passed.  I am trying really hard to watch my sugar intake and cut back on the carbs.  I am going to get my blood work done on Friday so hopefully my platelets will have gone back up.

I still do not have anything set up for the baby. I have 8 weeks left until my scheduled C-section. So, plenty of time, right?  Luckily, Dianna is going to loan me most of her baby stuff so it is just a matter of me dragging it over from her house to mine.

I am finding it really difficult to find maternity shirts long enough to cover my belly so I have been wearing a lot of dresses to school.  I'm fancy like that.  My students are still obsessed with my belly and want to discuss it every day.  They also always want to touch it and poke it.  At this point, I don't even care. 

The bigger I get, the louder I snore.  I mean REALLY loud.  Poor Tom.  One night I slept in Ellie's room because she was scared of the fire and the next morning she told me my "crazy hammer snore" kept her up all night.   Truthfully, my snoring even wakes me up.  It is THAT loud.

I held a tiny, baby boy at church on Sunday. Suddenly, I couldn't wait to hold my own baby boy in my arms and smell that sweet, newborn smell.  8 more weeks.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Fire!

Last Friday, I arrived home from work around 3:10. I was making Jack a sandwich when I heard loud popping noises and someone screaming.  I went outside and saw the house across the street engulfed in flames.  They had a van in the driveway that had also caught on fire.  The only person home was their 12 year old son who had run out of the house barefoot with his two small dogs.  He was sitting on my yard crying hysterically while another neighbor held him.  The house burned so quickly.  I found out later that they stored fireworks in their garage, thus all the explosions and accelerated burn pace.  In a matter of moments, my yard was filled with people.
 Others were stopping their cars in the road to stare and take pictures   The firetrucks started to arrive, but couldn't get through because of all the cars and people.  Then, Ellie's bus arrived (3:25) and that added to the confusion.  I tried to usher Ellie and Jack back into the house as quickly as possible because they were really scared and confused.  They kept going to the front windows to look out and watch the fire.  A police officer cleared my yard and put crime scene tape across it to keep the people back, however, the tape went down my driveway so a lot of people just filled my driveway, leaning up against my car, and coming all the way up to the front of my house.  Many of them were video-taping the whole thing.  It was crazy.


The house, a large two-story brick home, is now completely destroyed.  Even the bricks are gone.  The traffic on our street has increased tremendously.  People are driving by at all hours and stopping to stare at the house.  Every time we walk out the door, the kids are reminded of the fire.  Friday night, Ellie kept waking up with nightmares about our house burning down.  I ended up having to sleep in her room.  Since then, she keeps asking questions about fires and what if scenarios.  She also keeps asking why the fire started, something we don't know yet.  Jack also mentions it every day, saying things like, "I scared of fire."  The whole thing has been really traumatic for them (although I do realize it was much more traumatic for my neighbors). Honestly, it has made me more paranoid as well.  Fires are scary!  I am just really grateful no one was hurt.  I am also touched by how the neighborhood has rallied around the family (despite all the gawking).  Within hours of the fire, drop-offs were set up for gift card donations and they haven't stopped.  I spoke to my neighbor yesterday and she said they have been overwhelmed by the generosity and outpouring of support they have received from total strangers.  I love that.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Random ramblings of the unsound mind

A few days ago, I wrote the following status on Facebook: "Not a single day goes by that someone doesn't comment on how huge I am. It is awesome."  When I wrote it, I was just thinking how odd it is that people can tell a pregnant person how gigantic they are, but would never say that to a non-pregnant person. And don't even get me started on the whole rubbing the belly issue.  Honestly, I don't get mad when people comment on my size because, truthfully, I do get huge when I am pregnant.  Hello, I have 10 pound babies, I have diastasis recti from my previous pregnancies, and I wasn't small to begin with!  And I do realize that people aren't trying to be mean or hurtful when they make those comments.  But it does get a little old.  Especially when they follow it up when things like, "Are you sure you aren't having twins?" or "You look like you are going to pop any day now" when I still have 10 weeks to go!
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We are halfway through January and the Christmas stuff is still in a pile downstairs waiting for Tom to haul them up to the attic.  The bins were in the front room, but I dragged them all to the bottom of the stairs last weekend in the hopes that Tom might be more motivated to move them.  In my mind, that pile seems to grow larger and larger by the day...along with my irritation.  And don't even get me started on the desk we bought from IKEA that is still in its original packaging.   In Tom's defense, he is incredibly busy with school and track season. He is completely exhausted when he gets home and I have delegated all kid bedtime duties to him because I am also exhausted and I get to play the pregnancy card.
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My kids seem to be always hungry.  I took the advice of my pediatrician awhile back to go to the fridge for snacks since the stuff in pantries usually aren't healthy.  However, none of it was easily accessible for the kids so I would still have to stop whatever I was doing (like dozing in the recliner) to get them their snack. But, yesterday I came up with a brilliant plan.  I would fill the bottom bin in the fridge with healthy foods!  That way they could get it themselves!  Genius, right?  And they were so excited about it.  I do still make them ask me before going in there because otherwise that bin would be empty within 48 hours.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Pregnancy Update

The day after Christmas, Tom and I drove downtown to see a maternal fetal specialist at my OB's recommendation.  He was concerned with some things he saw on my ultrasound.  Everything ended up being fine, but I did love getting a better look at my baby!  The ultrasound equipment at the specialist's office was way better than my doctor's  We could really see baby Sam!  The doctor said he was measuring two weeks ahead and to prepare for yet another big baby.  I wasn't surprised.

I also received the results from my glucose screening.  I failed.  Also not a surprise since the amount of sugar I ingested over the holidays was insane.  So, now I have to go take the 3 hour glucose tolerance test.  Boo.  My platelets were also low so I have to go back for more blood work in a few weeks.  I am sure it will all be fine, but I am really glad this is my last pregnancy!

I had a bit of a panic attack a week ago when I realized that I have done absolutely nothing to prepare for this baby.  No place to sleep. No dresser space for clothes. No changing area set up. No car seat.  Little details.  I know I still have 10 weeks to go, but this lack of preparedness is really freaking me out.  I have all the nesting urges, but none of the energy to actually carry out those urges.

What I loved about my Christmas vacation

1. Family Reunion

My entire family was here for Christmas!
 The grandkids had a blast playing together.
2.  Christmas Eve Traditions
Acting out the birth of Christ

Grandpa telling "A Pack for Santa's Back"

Jesus's birthday cake

3.  Christmas Day at Nana's
4.  Swimming in December

5. Quick trip to San Antonio
Dinner on the Riverwalk at the only place that didn't have an hour long wait.  The kids liked their giant hats (Ellie's says, "Call 911 I've been kidnapped!")

Watching the Shamu show at SeaWorld
6. New Year's Eve
Celebrating midnight...in Holland

Cheers to the New Years